by fox » Tue Oct 20, 2009 3:19 am
With the stress eraser you don't need the stop technique!
Ashok's stop-technique is actually a feedback-system. It gives you feedback, when negative thoughts occur.
(Or rather, you yourself give feedback to your body-mind, that now 'something is wrong', and hence you stop it.)
With the Stress Eraser this is not necessary, as it is already a bioFEEDBACK system. It simply gives you immediate feedback, via visual, or auditory signals-cues whether you are really relaxed or not.
It is so sensitive, that it even notices when you think!! Just a small thought, and the wave usually gets worse.
To make it clear:
1.) Triangles always appear, even when you're not relaxed.
2.) The triangles on top of the screen indicate when you have to breathe out. (After about a week or so, you will probably only use the auditroy mode, where a beep indicates that you have to breath out.)
3.) The pitch of the beep indicate how relaxed your breath (and hence you) was:
a.) High pitch beep: You're tense.
b.) Medium pitched beep: You're somewhat relaxed.
c.) Low pitched beep: You're relaxed.
This always sounds overly complicated - it is not. In fact it is the easiest to handle biofeedback device I have ever tried.
(This was my hobby when I was younger, I tried quite a few of them.)
When you manage about 10 low pitched beeps in a row for the first time, it will automatically occur to you, how it feels when you're REALLY relaxed! WE HAVE FORGOTTEN!! Our bodies are super-sick, we must not forget that...many of us are type A people, always stressed, tense, nervous....before ME/CFS that was, now we are even worse!
So as soon as you feel how it feels to be really relaxed, the automatic feedback-loop within your body-mind will trigger in, and you will literally relearn relaxation!!
Enjoy!
fox