Hi June,
I am new to this forum, but have been doing the Gupta programme since April 2010 & it has certainly helped my pain & fatigue in that I'm back at work and appear to others as though I'm functioning 'normally' though I'm not quite 100%. Initially I did not feel the Gupta programme was doing much for me, but as Ashok says stick with it an in time the body responds as the amygdala calms down. At one stage I did think about getting my money back, but I have now passed the DVDs on to friends with CFS & they are benefitting too.
As Wintersun mentioned Full Catastrophe Living - I also found that very helpful too and I recently did a mindfulness course locally which reinforces everything.
I am sure the Gupta programme will help you if you have pain & fatigue. The other things that have helped me are to practice Qigong (similar to Tai Chi) & yoga. I have also had craniosacral therapy which has been very beneficial, but not cheap.
Hope you find some of this helpful.
This is the Qigong DVD I used & I would say it has been a lifesaver for me.
http://www.mecures.co.uk/index.php?id=112&subid=24 All the best